FINDING MOMENTS LIBRARY
a collection of amazing articles and parenting tips, tricks and hacks regardless of the date published.
VIDEOS
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SUMMER CAMP
HOW TO RAISE SUCCESSFUL KIDS-WITHOUT OVER-PARENTING
CREATE MEMORIES, NOT EXPECTATIONS
HOW TO GET YOUR KIDS TO LISTEN AND ENGAGE
BE MORE TODDLER HOW 3 YR OLDS CAN TEACH US TO BE BETTER HUMANS
HOW TO USE ACT TO DEAL WITH STRESS
THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SON MY AUTISTIC SON
HOW TO RAISE EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT CHILDREN
SHOULD CHILDREN DO CHORES?
THREE TIPS TO RAISE A SMART CHILD
HOW TO PARENT A TEEN FROM A TEEN’S PERSPECTIVE
THE BEAUTIFUL, HARD WORK OF CO-PARENTING
PARENTING STYLES
A NEW WAY TO GET EVERY CHILD READY FOR KINDERGARTEN
COLIN POWELL: KIDS NEED STRUCTURE
THE POWER OF BALANCED PARENTING
PARENTING IN THE MODERN WORLD
suggested reading
What’s your summer parenting style?
Should summer break be about R&R, hitting the books, or something in between? Identify your summer style – and how you can make it work to your kids’ advantage.
By Jacquile Goetz Bluethmann
Parenting, June 7, 2016
Parents get tire of summer quickly, study finds
Stressed-out parents want summer to end after just 13 days, according to new research.
By Zoya, Gervis
SWNS Digital.com, September 6, 2021
Why so many parents are stressing out about summer
Summer break or nightmare? According to research, 70 percent of parents are stressed about summer and the majority would be ok sending the kids back to school after just a week off.
By Zoya Gervis, SWNS
NY Post, June 20, 2019
Summertime Family Bonding Activities
Summertime doesn’t have to mean complaints of boredom. In fact, the less structured months of summer allow for a more relaxed environment that creates the perfect time to truly connect. Taking the time to enjoy some summertime family bonding activities is a great way to not only stave off the complaints of boredom but also strengthen your family relationships.
Great Peace Living
50 Easy Ways to Be a Fantastic Parent
We've gathered our all-time favorite nuggets of advice from our board of advisors in one outstanding article that will have a profound effect on your whole family.
By Barrie Gillies
Parents, June 11, 2015
Children, Chores, and Happy Productivity
It’s worth your time to insist that your child do household chores.
Reviewed by Devon Frye
Psychology Today, August 6, 2019
SCREEN TIME AND THE BRAIN
Digital devices can interfere with everything from sleep to creativity
By DEBRA BRADLEY RUDER
Harvard Medical School, July 19, 2019
Why Being an Authoritative Parent Is the Best Approach
What kind of parent are you? Which would you say best describes your parenting style—someone who is demanding and controlling; someone who is warm and responsive; or someone who indulges their kids and rarely disciplines? As in the case of Goldilocks and the Three Bears, one of these approaches is "just right" when compared to the the others.
By Katherine Lee
Very Well Family, May 1, 2020
Do You Really ‘See’ Your Child?
Helicopter parenting has become the American norm, but it may not be the best way to connect with our kids.
By Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.
New York Times, April 15, 2020
Pandemic screen time is off the charts—but experts say parents don't need to worry
If you've been handing over the iPad a lot more than usual throughout the pandemic and feel a pang of guilt each time, our panel of experts has some pretty good news for you.
By Claire Gagne
Today’s Parent April 13, 2021
Are You a Pushover Parent?
If you're a softie with your kids (but wish you weren't), it's not too late to get an authoritative backbone. Here's how.
By Charlotte Latvala
Good Housekeeping, September 7, 2011
Want to raise kids with high self-esteem? A parenting expert on the power of teaching your kids ‘repetition and ritual’
Daisy Dowling, Contributor
CNBC, June 16, 2021
6 Tips to Raise an Optimist
Wondering how to raise an optimistic child? After all, kids who see the glass as half full are better at dealing with life’s challenges—and happier too. Here's six tips to help yours develop a sunny outlook on life.
By Vicki Glembocki
Parents.com, February 21, 2017
Blue light has a dark side
What is blue light? The effect blue light has on your sleep and more.
Harvard Health Letter
Harvard Health Publishing, July 7, 2020
Passive Parenting Style
Parenting might be the most difficult job you decide to take on in your lifetime. There are no instructions, no days off and some days it feels like you are teetering on the brink of insanity. You might be confused or uncertain about the type of parent you are or want to be. If your children's behavior is out of control, or you are trying to be your child's best friend, you may be a passive parent. While nothing is black or white when it comes to parenting, you may want to take a close look at your relationship with your child to help determine if you are a passive parent, and whether or not you truly want to be.
By Michelle Blessing
Focus on the Family
How to Get Your Children to Do Chores
Kids need to learn the value of contributing to their environment.
By Dan Mager MSW
Psychology Today, July 19, 2019
12 Ways to Become a More Authoritative Parent
There isn’t a single formula for raising children well. After all, parenting isn’t an exact science. There’s definitely a bit of an art to good parenting.
By Amy Morin, LCSW
Very Well Family, October 26, 2020
Making time for kids? Study says quality trumps quantity.
Do parents, especially mothers, spend enough time with their children? Groundbreaking new research upends conventional wisdom on the topic.
By Brigid Schulte
Washington Post, March 28, 2015
I'm a Mom and a Children's Privacy Lawyer: Here's What I Do and Don't Post About My Kid Online
It's normal to worry about your child's safety online. Children's privacy lawyer Katie Goldstein shares your concerns and offers tips all parents should follow to ensure healthy internet habits.
By Katie Goldstein
Parents.com, May 29, 2019
7 Ways to Raise a Well-Rounded Kid
Surround your children with love, happiness, and encouragement so they have the confidence to reach goals.
By Amy Capetta
Parents.com, July 14, 2015
Gratitude Physically Changes Your Brain, New Study Says
New research reveals the biology of why gratitude is such a powerful happiness booster.
By Jessica Stillman
Inc.com, January 15, 2016
6 reasons children need to play outside
Here’s something really simple you can do to improve your child’s chance of future health and success: make sure he spends plenty of time playing outside.
By Claire McCarthy, MD
Harvard Health Publishing, May 22, 2018
6 Sports For Kids Who Aren't "Sporty"
When you understand a child's character, it's much easier to decide which activities he or she should be involved in, and that includes choosing a sport.
By Nicole Crawford
BreakingMuscle.com
Parent’s Guide to Teen Depression
It isn’t always easy to differentiate between normal teenage growing pains and depression. But here’s how you can recognize the signs and symptoms and best help your child.
By Melinda Smith, M.A., Lawrence Robinson, and Jeanne Segal, Ph.D.
Helpguide.org, September 2020
The Best Family Board Games
These sets will spruce things up when everyone in the house is tired of screens and all caught up on The Mandalorian.
By Simon Hill
Wired.com, November 15, 2020
Depression in Children
It’s natural for children, like adults, to experience emotional ups and downs. For some children, feeling “blue” for an extended period can be a sign of depression. If your child’s mental health interferes with social activities, interests, schoolwork or family life, it's time to get help.
The Cleveland Clinic, November 17, 2020
Age-Appropriate Chores for Kids: Getting Children to Help Around the House
Children benefit when they're expected to help around the house. This guide will help you assign age-appropriate chores to kids, whether they’re in preschool, elementary school, or high school.
By Rory Halperin and Alisa Stoudt
Parents, November 03, 2020
NEWS
Harsh parenting may stunt children's brain growth, study suggests
By Kelly Burch
Insider, April 6, 2021
Be 'Louder' About Your Parenting at Work
By Meghan Moravcik Walbert
Life Hacker, April 22, 2021
WORKING PARENTS ARE REACHING THEIR 'BREAKING POINT' DUE TO THE PANDEMIC, AND THEY SAY NATIONAL PAID PARENTAL LEAVE CAN'T COME SOON ENOUGH
By Caroline Hroncich
Business Insider, November 8th, 2020
Parenting in pandemic: How to keep children safe from the anxiety virus?
Times of India, April 24, 2021
Single Parenting in a Pandemic
“How the crisis has dredged up one mother’s old regrets and worries about money.”
By Andrea Luttrell
New York Times, November 5th, 2020
Masculine traits linked to better parenting for some dads
Key is for men to also believe they should nurture, study finds
By Jeff Grabmeier
Ohio State News, April 9, 2021
Free nursing service program helps new moms navigate parenting and the pandemic
By Shawndrea Thomas
KGUN, November 6, 2020
My kids are on screens more than ever during the pandemic. Here’s why I’m not panicking
By Jordan Shapiro
Washington Post, November 5, 2020
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Parenting Style Quiz
This quiz is designed to help you better understand your parenting style. For each item, indicate how much you agree or disagree with the statement. This takes most people about 4 minutes to complete. Take your time and answer truthfully for the most accurate results. (If both parents are available, they should both take the quiz and then compare their parenting styles.)
Credit Psych Central
75 Awesome Calm Down Strategies for Kids (that they’ll want to try!)
By Angela Pruess
AGE-APPROPRIATE CHORES:
HOW TO HELP KIDS BE RESPONSIBLE
Focus on the Family
Associations Between Household Chores and Childhood Self-Competency
Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics
COVID-19 Anxiety – How can ACT help?
Interview with Russ Harris.
Household chores for children
Raisingchilren.net.au
How to engage the uninvolved parent
University of Minnesota Extension